High fidelity(Nick Horby's book that is made into movie starring John Cusack)

  High fidelity: loyalty, trust, perhaps inflexibility. Trust is one crucial thing that is needed to build and last whatever the bond that is formed; team, company, family, party, even a country. And when it comes to one most important relationship that everyone would have, marriage, trust is one huge matter of a thing. Too much can kill you just as sure as none at all.

  Now, we all haven't been married(am i correct?). Through series of relationships we are feeling, understanding, realizing who we are, who you are, and who i am. (Are we?^^;;;;)

  John Cusack is a kind of person who cannot move on because he not only requires too much from others, but before that puts too much burden on him. It is pretty much like smart and pretty girl who cannot date because she is just too picky. Successful and alone, unable to realize the fact even on her 30th birthday.

  The fact is that you can only get when you give up. Food that you eat this very moment is delicious because the food that you ate on your previous meal has all been digested and given up through energy and whatever(^0^). No one can have consecutive three meals at one time and feel the same gratefulness at each meal. You have to give up, even those that you absolutely require, in order to truly receive them from your beloved partner. Words sound little illogical, so let's put it this way. Love, relationship is about giving, we all know that. Just add letting yourself go. It makes your significant other come into you little easier.

  Hard. Absolutely. We have to keep practicing until we perish. Tonight you might want to listen to Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get it on" if you would like to understand the thankfulness of the relationships that we are sharing. It's not for granted, rather the most precious that we search, study, and preserve like jewels. I am Minseok because 'you' call me minseok. Try not to forget 'you', and let's get it on!